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Just can't escape the drama

Okay so lately I've been increasingly annoyed by some of my so-called "friends" and I need to rant a little bit. Also before you read this and think I'm a hypocrite, if I have a problem with someone I respect I will tell them, but if I don't respect them then telling them isn't gonna do any good so why waste my fucking time. And cue rant starting...

I'm so fed up of some people constantly moaning about their "problems" but then bragging about something they've got out of exploiting those problems or whatever. It just pisses me off if you have a problem try and solve it don't just sit around and wait for shit to be handed to you. (Not a shot at people on benefits who really need it, I'm on benefits and I have friends and family that are too but the reality is some people still find a way to abuse the system, partly because that system is fucked but that's a whole different issue for another day).

Another thing that's got me annoyed is two-faced people. They bitch about you and/or your friends behind your back and then they play the victim to your face. If you've got a fucking problem with me come and tell me otherwise pipe the fuck down.

And they sometimes split off into little groups and it becomes like a Mean Girls situation like for fuck sake you are grown fucking adults is there any chance you could act like it?! The funny thing is some of the people pissing me off are older than me, like 20 years older and they're still acting like 12 year olds!

There's one in particular that's been caught bullshitting and shit stirring lately and I'm not fucking impressed. Her code name will be "Lilith" (yes I've been watching Supernatural). For starters she has that habit of copying me then saying she did it first and act like she's a trendsetter, and she also has a habit of befriending my friends then either trying to take them away/alienate them from me or drive them away altogether. Real fucking 12 year old shit.

She also thinks she knows everything and tries to act like she's smarter than everyone like she's this big fucking wise Buddha or Ghandi or something I mean come on if her head gets any bigger she won't be able to walk through doorways!

Anyway, now you get the general idea of how annoying, petty and pathetic she is...I recently found out that a massive argument I had about 2 years ago with someone who used to be a close friend was because of "Lilith".

She said something bitchy behind my friend's back and then turned around to my friend and told her that I said it. And I would say it backfired because the friend fell out with both of us but honestly I think she wanted to fall out with her as well, partly because she feeds off drama and partly because if the person was blocked by both me and Lilith they couldn't tell me what happened. I guess "Lilith" didn't anticipate me bumping into this person in town and patching things up or my mum bumping into her a couple of days later and her spilling the beans to my mum about things we didn't know had happened back then.

We're all starting to realise that "Lilith" is responsible for a lot of drama and arguments by whispering and shit stirring and then plays the innocent victim. The sad thing is that sometimes she's been a really good friend, but I'm starting to wonder if that really was friendship or just manipulation. She's an attention whore, a shit stirrer, a bullshitter and a manipulator. One day people will see her for who she really is, I just hope it happens soon...and I hope she learns a valuable lesson when that happens.

The lesson for today's post/rant...if you're gonna stir the shit pot, be prepared to lick the spoon.

Peace out

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